One thing that I have learned from my online dating experience is that at some point you need to take some time to evaluate:- Who you are right now
- Where see yourself in the next few years
- What type of person you need that will fit into your current and future life objectives.
Like I have said in previous posts, there are so many people on online dating sites. Therefore, it is crucial that you have a few basic questions about yourself figured out. This way you can start to filter out the people that wont fit well into your life.
Many dating advice experts suggest that people create a list of criteria that a certain person must fulfill. This criteria involves three components:
- Essential criteria: Anything that is a must, like religion or family beliefs
- Criteria that you prefer: Such as hair colour, or athletic attributes
- Criteria that does not matter: Anything that you don't have a preference to.
With this criteria in mind, you can then evaluate the individual first using the essential criteria. If they don't meet those standards then you should move on to the next, and so on. Doing this ensures that you remain mindful of the things you want, and inadvertantely will be more successful in finding someone that you are truely compatible with.-Dana
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